The Forget-Me-Not Remembrance Ceremony Set

Every loss deserves
to be marked.

"There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you."

Maya Angelou  ·  I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings

In the Victorian language of flowers, forget-me-nots represented true love, and remembrance. The name is its own instruction.

This beautiful, carefully-curated remembrance ceremony set works for any loss. A bereavement with no funeral. An anniversary you have always marked quietly. A grief the world moved on from long before you did. The forget-me-not seeds inside may be planted as part of the ceremony, or afterwards, giving you something that grows from the day you finally gave the loss its proper weight.

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Ceremonies of Love

Forget-Me-Not Ceremony Set

Forget-Me-Not Ceremony Set

Regular price £130.00 GBP
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What is inside

  • The Ceremonies of Love altar cloth · exclusively designed
  • The Ceremony Flame · Scent 001: Lavender, Ylang Ylang & Thyme
  • The Ceremonies of Love Remembrance Ceremony Set Ceremony Guide
  • Fairy lights · with battery
  • Crystals, carefully selected to support in grief · Rose quartz · Amethyst · Lepidolite
  • Forget-Me-Not seeds · Myosotis Alpestris · 200 seeds

Giving back

10% of the profits from this set are donated to Sue Ryder Bereavement Charity.

The Ceremony Flame is also available individually in a larger 300ml size. The pen shown in some photographs is not included.

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Included with your set The Ceremonies of Love Remembrance Ceremony Set Guide

Ancient in structure.
Entirely yours.

The Guide inside your Ceremony Set is not an instruction manual, it is a companion for your ceremony: a framework that draws from thousands of years of human ceremonial practice, held in such a way that you can make your ceremony entirely your own.

The Ceremonies of Love Ceremony Guide, open

The Guide draws on months of research across independent celebrancy, grief psychology, ancient funerary rites, Druidic teaching, wake traditions, and ceremonial practices.

Throughout, you will find notes drawn from the archive which guide you in crafting your own memorial event.

Whatever you are marking, it deserves to be marked.

Charlotte Fowler Threshold Architect & Celebrant

The grief that has no ceremony has no place to land.

Safety & Care Information +
Ceremony Flame

90g · 10–12 hour burn time · Lavender, Thyme & Ylang Ylang


Candle Safety

Burn on a heat-resistant surface. Never leave burning unattended. Keep away from children and pets. Maintain 10cm clearance from flammable materials. Do not burn for more than 4 hours at a time. Stop use when 10mm of wax remains. Allow to cool fully before moving. Do not use if the jar is cracked or damaged. Matches are not included.


Allergen Information

Contains: Linalyl Acetate, Eucalyptol, Beta-Pinene, Linalool, D-Limonene, P-Mentha-1,4-Diene. May cause an allergic reaction. Harmful to aquatic life with long lasting effects. If on skin: wash thoroughly. If in eyes: rinse thoroughly for several minutes. If irritation persists, seek medical advice.


Altar Cloth

51 × 51 cm · 100% man-made fibres with cotton-soft feel
Machine wash 60°C · Do not bleach · Tumble dry low · Iron hot · Do not dry clean


Forget-Me-Not Seeds

Myosotis Alpestris · 200 seeds · Supplied by Botanique Workshop
Sow spring or autumn · Partial shade · Keep moist until established